Player confidence at all levels of play, from youth recreational to the professional athlete, is fragile. Handle with care! The challenge with building confidence is that it is such a fragile construct. An athlete might be confident one minute and then a play or two later have their confidence shattered. It is not uncommon for an athlete's confidence to fluctuate throughout the course of a season. Every player goes through a slump and needs to rebuild their self belief.
Competitive sports is more about failure than success. On average, soccer and hockey players miss 90% of their shot attempts. Baseball and softball's best hitters are out 65 to 70% of the time. Basketball player miss half of their shot attempts. Quarterbacks do not complete 40% of their pass attempts. All of this natural failure tends to erode an athlete's confidence. How a player deals with the built-in failure of the game eventually determines how successful they will be.
The key is not eliminating all doubts and fear, but having the player muster up enough confidence to perform despite the doubts and distractions. More...